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RELATIONAL MENTORING
for him and her individually
I am here to guide you in embodied living and deeper relating to self, other, and the world around you. I am passionate for you living your life flourishingly, rooted in your unique being, body and beauty.
Through somatic therapy and relational mentoring, I support you in the connection to your body, uncovering what truly inspires you, and grounding in emotional wellbeing. I guide you in the art of relating to self, other and in this world so you can embody the truest you.
Somatic therapy and relational mentorship is for those ready to relate deeper to themselves, the challenges they face, embracing the innate wisdom of their body, and deeply relate to all Life brings. This work is oriented towards facing any obstacle we may be presented with in this life, bringing compassion, sensitivity, transformation, cultivating conscious presence and love to all aspects of ourselves and those we relate with by applying embodiment practices, finding depth in meaning, and artfully expressing ourselves truthfully so that we can flourish and radiate our deepest embodiment in this life.
I am in service to walk beside you on your journey. When you are ready, schedule an intake call.
"The minute I heard my first love story,
I started looking for you, not knowing
how blind that was.
Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere.
They’re in each other all along."
- rumi
Relational mentoring
For him
for devoted men seeking to embody more of their masculine essence and create deeper intimacy with their woman through...
The Art of Presence
Learning how to root into stillness and awareness so you can meet your woman—and yourself—with grounded presence.
Leading Through Tension, Not Avoiding It
Cultivating the inner strength to stay with discomfort, speak truthfully, and hold loving tension instead of collapsing into avoidance or appeasement during moments of intensity.
Unhooking the Patterns
Understanding and transforming the patterns you encounter in relating, so you can bring clarity, leadership, and truth to the moment.
Embodying the Masculine Pole
Claiming your role in polarity by anchoring into direction, containment, and devotion, allowing your woman to soften, relax and feel safe.
Reclaiming Sexual Leadership
Deepening your capacity to initiate, hold, and lead sexually from a place of integrity and connection—not performance or pressure.
Attuning to Her Feminine Heart
Learning to read, honor, and respond to your woman’s emotional and energetic expression—not as problems to fix, but as invitations to deeper love.
Relating From Depth, Not Reactivity
Developing emotional maturity and somatic awareness of yourself so you can stay open and connected in all aspects of living, leading and loving as a man.
Living and Relating as Devotion, Not Obligation
Shifting from "doing enough" to living in alignment with your deepest values and love for her—where your leadership becomes a gift, not a task.
For her
for loving women both strong and tender, longing to be met in love while standing rooted in their own truth and feminine essence through...
Resting Into the Feminine
Without Losing Your Power
Reclaiming softness, receptivity, relaxation and feeling—not as weakness, but as profound strength that flows from being deeply anchored in yourself.
Being Seen Without Performing
Letting go of strategies to be chosen or validated, and allowing yourself to be truly met as you are—raw, radiant, and real.
Healing the Relational Wound
Gently tending to the places in you that have been hurt, betrayed, or unseen—so your heart can open again without self-abandonment.
Inviting Love, Not Chasing It
Embodying the magnetic feminine that calls in devotion through presence, depth, and embodiment—rather than effort or overgiving.
Honoring Your Inner Spine
Cultivating your own inner masculine: clarity, boundaries, and self-leadership that allow your own inner feminine to relax and feel safe within.
Expressing From Fullness, Not Fear
Learning to voice your needs, desires, and emotions in ways that bring you closer to love, not further from it.
Becoming the Love You Long For
Letting your longing guide you deeper into yourself—so that the love you offer is not a request to be filled, but a sacred overflowing.
Living your Radiance, in Wholesome Worthiness
Rooting into your inherent beauty, sensuality, and wholeness—not to impress or seduce, but because you remember you are worthy of being loved, cherished, and adored simply because you exist.
WHAT OTHER WOMEN SAY
“Tessa is a warm person who listens really well. She had a loving way of questioning me directly with the harder questions and I think she dares to ask through the uncomfortable really well. I got so many insights in the coaching trajectory that I did with her”
— Noortje, 4-month mentorship, Netherlands
My approach.
I work with the influence and latest developments in mindful somatic psychotherapy, modern coaching, quantum physics, epigenetics, and new human sciences combined with ancient traditions of healing, health and wisdom rooted in yogic science, ayurveda, classical tantra and Buddhism.
I am trained as a somatic therapist and somatic relational coach and sexuologist, in a trauma-sensitive way. I hold an MSc in Social Sciences and Anthropology and am trained in the Somatica method by the Somatica Instute for sex and relationship, registered with ASIS as a somatic sexologist. I extensively work with the framework of the stages of relating, yogic intimacy and devotional love through the work of David Deida.
I work with tools that involve integrative and embodiment practice, breath and energy awareness, somatics, emotional release techniques, talk modalities and more.
My approach is based on the belief that as humans we are whole and complete, that we thrive when we feel meaning in our lives, when we relate to self and other wholesomely and are connected to beauty in the greater sense. By embracing and facing all we may be presented with in Life, we return back to who we truly are and grow on our path in life.
I welcome the hearts that ache for realness. Those who have loved with everything and still wonder if they’re too much, or not enough. I sit beside those who fumble forward with open hearts, still longing to be met. Those who feel with their whole bodies and speak with their silences. I walk with the ones who have been burned by love, but who dare to love anyway.
Who breathe through the ache and let their longing make them more alive, not less. Who carry poetry in their blood and carry ancient wisdom in their wounds. I guide the fierce lovers—the ones who break their own hearts just by staying true.
The women who want to be held without shrinking. The men who want to lead without losing tenderness. The souls who sense there’s more to love than what they’ve been shown.
This work is a homecoming, a homecoming in the heart of relating.
A gentle gathering of the scattered parts.
A path back to wholeness, not perfection.
To love, not to perform.
To intimacy that begins within—
rippling outward as truth, as beauty, as love.
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